Is your child having a hard time in school with grades or bullies? Or perhaps your teenager is staying out past curfew. Are you frustrated and fed up with your kid not listening to you? If so, the parenting tips below may help you find common ground with your child!
It is important that when dealing with teenagers- college year children of yours to never have to hear about the money issues that may be happening your (mother and father) lives. If you can’t support them they will understand and take initiative. However, if they are supported by you but still get complaints about how much they cost to you, this will ruin your relationship with them.
Sometimes, unpleasant disciplinary actions must be handed down. “First, feelings; then discipline,” is a highly effective approach that begins with a positive statement that acknowledges the child’s feelings (right or wrong) and then explains your reason for setting the disciplinary consequences. This can help reduce the levels of resentment following the action.
Never administer medication to your child for any “off-label” conditions unless the child’s doctor has given you specific written instructions to do so. Children do not always react to medication in the same way adults do. For instance, giving a child Benadryl to help induce sleep might actually have the opposite effect of hyperactivity.
A great parenting tip is to not always let your child get what they want. If you let your child get what they want all the time, they’ll go through life thinking they’ll never have to hear the word “no”. Be reasonable with your child and tell them “no” when you need to.
As a parent one should make sure to set time aside specifically for the family. This is important for maintaining a happy and close family, because with our busy lives it is easy to let other outside activities such as sports and work get in the way.
As unfortunate an event it may be, divorces happen all of the time. In order for you, a divorced parent, to hold a good relationship with your college aged and older children you must never get them in the middle of your divorce. This will push them away for you and your ex-spouse.
Mom And Baby
Look into slings and baby carriers designed for twins. They do exist, and they are fabulous. There is a learning curve for getting two babies into a carrier, but the benefits to mom and baby are enormous. Wearing your babies will allow you to get things done with your hands free, and the twins get the emotional connection and intellectual stimulation from being right with you.
By using the above tips, you will create a more open flow of communication between you and your child. You will also learn how to more effectively use discipline with your child so he or she learns manners and respect. Remember, stay calm and evaluate each situation from your point of view and your child’s! Be the best parent you can be!